We don’t need to eliminate all our reactions to people and problems. Reactions can be useful. They help us identify what we like and what feels good.… - Melody Beattie

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We don’t need to eliminate all our reactions to people and problems. Reactions can be useful. They help us identify what we like and what feels good. They help us identify problems in and around us. But most of us react too much. And much of what we react to is nonsense. It isn’t all that important, and it doesn’t merit the time and attention we’re giving it. Some of what we react to is other people’s reactions to us.