To adorn her in somebody else’s eyes; never again in mine. - Thomas Hardy

Biblioll College. Sir, — I have read your letter with interest; and, judging from your description of yourself as a working-man, I venture to think that you will have a much better chance of success in life by remaining in your own sphere and sticking to your trade than by adopting any other course. That, therefore, is what I advise you to do. Yours faithfully, T. Tetuphenay. To Mr. J. Fawley, Stone-mason.

And at home by the fire, whenever you look up there I shall be — and whenever I look up, there will be you.
-Gabriel Oak

I can't bear that they, and everybody, should think people wicked because they may have chosen to live their own way!