"Your pain will not always be like this," I told her. "It will change." This is a message that the grieving need to hear, and in the moment of saying… - David Kessler

"Your pain will not always be like this," I told her. "It will change." This is a message that the grieving need to hear, and in the moment of saying it, I often observe a shift. The person looks up at me and says, "It will?" And he or she suddenly becomes lighter.