Remember, you can’t expect immature, emotionally phobic people to be different from how they are. - Lindsay C. Gibson

Emotionally immature people don’t step back and think about how their behavior impacts others. There’s no cringe factor for them, so they seldom apologize or experience regret.

Emotionally mature people may tell you how they feel about what you did, but they don’t pretend to know you better than you know yourself.

Many children of such parents learn to subjugate themselves to other people’s wishes (Young and Klosko 1993). Because they grew up anticipating their parent’s stormy emotional weather, they can be overly attentive to other people’s feelings and moods, often to their own detriment.