It's better to be kind than to be right. - Anne Lamott

Rituals are a good signal to your unconscious that it is time to kick in.

Age has given me the gift of me, it just gave me what I was always longing for, which was to get to be the woman I've already dreamt of being. Which is somebody who can do rest and do hard work and be a really constant companion, a constant tender-hearted wife to myself.

The single most radical thing I know . . . is that I get to take care of myself.