There is no loss, if you cannot remember what you have lost. - Catherine Webb

Men must be decent first and brilliant later, otherwise you’re not helping people, just servicing the machine.

Time was simple, is simple. We can divide it into simple parts, measure it, arrange dinner by it, drink whisky to its passage. We can mathematically deploy it, use it to express ideas about the observable universe, and yet if asked to explain it in simple language to a child–in simple language which is not deceit, of course–we are powerless. The most it ever seems we know how to do with time is to waste it.

Go with it?"…
"Don't fight against inevitability," I translated loosely. "Life is until it is not, so why get fussed? Don't hurt anyone, try not to give your dinner guests food poisoning, be clean in word and deed—what else is there? Just be a decent person in a decent world."
"Everyone's a decent person," she replied softly, "in their own eyes.