You can will an act of service but you cannot will love. - Anthony de Mello

"What is love?"; "The total absence of fear," said the Master; "What is it we fear?"; "Love," said the Master.

On the question of his own enlightenment the Master always remained reticent, even though the disciples tried every means to get him to talk. All the information they had on this subject was what the Master once said to his youngest son, who wanted to know what his father felt when he became enlightened. The answer was, 'A fool.'
When the boy asked why, the Master had replied, 'Well, son, it was like going to great pains to break into a house by climbing a ladder and smashing a window — - and realizing later that the door of the house was open.

The important religious distinction is not between those who worship and those who do not worship but between those who love and those who don't.