But instead of blaming women for not negotiating more, we need to recognize that women often have good cause to be reluctant to advocate for their ow… - Sheryl Sandberg

"Leadership is about making others better as a result of your presence and making sure that impact lasts in your absence."
(Harvard Business School definition of leadership)

​Blaming our actions rather than our character allows us to feel guilt instead of shame.

One of the most important things I’ve learned is how deeply you can keep loving someone after they die. You may not be able to hold them or talk to them, and you may even date or love someone else, but you can still love them every bit as much. Playwright Robert Woodruff Anderson captured it perfectly: “Death ends a life, but it does not end a relationship.” Last