It's impossible for men and women who love each other not to hurt each other now and then, but most women would settle happily for a man who tried no… - Merle Shain

Marriages should be as diverse as the people in them are, which means that some will be one of a kind, and some totally different still. And those who don't want to love, honor and obey, should be able to promise each other anything they choose, without having to ask anyone what they think of that, particularly themselves.

Loving someone means helping them to be more themselves, which can be different from being what you'd like them to be, although often they turn out the same.

You can, after all, produce an orgasm yourself if that's what you want, so we must go to bed for something more.