writing pad that bears the logo of public accommodations. - Judith Martin

Once a cad was someone who enticed a lady into consummating a promised marriage before the ceremony had taken place.

College women are typically given to declaring for one or the other (in my day, for marriage; now, generally, for careers), and only later finding to their surprise that they must cope with both — while their men may be trying to figure out how to get out of doing both.

It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.