Alexander Den Heijer Quotes

He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.

There’s a saying that goes, ‘The best way out is always through.’ If we want to live without fear, or any other emotion, we must first learn to live with it.

To live our lives trying to avoid mistakes is one of the biggest mistakes we can make.

If we don't do what we know we must do, we disturb our peace of mind. If we do this often, we may harm our self-esteem. We all make mistakes and we all make excuses. This is part of being human. The key is to correct ourselves as fast as we can.

Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are.

But in reality, it’s the way we relate to things that matters. It’s not social media that makes us depressed; it’s our relationship to it. It’s not money that makes us unhappy; it’s our relationship to it. It’s not our partner that makes us happy; it’s our relationship to him or her. Instead of changing the world around us, it may be better to change the way we relate to the world.

Sometimes, when we become a friend to ourselves, we become a stranger to others.

In time, peace cannot be found. In expectation, it is suspended. In surrender, it is right here.

Until we have inner permission to be who we are, we will always be searching for it in the outside world.

Wisdom begins where certainty ends

The moment we discover our purpose is the moment we tap into an infinite source of energy. This is the moment we realize we weren’t tired; we were just uninspired. As Mark Twain said, “The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why.

You don't inspire people by revealing your super powers; you inspire people by helping them reveal their own super powers.

Too many of us believe happiness is a future event. And before we arrive, we need more money first, have a successful career, find a partner, settle down. And only then we will arrive at the destination of happiness. But when we arrive, we will realise happiness isn't there. Happiness is not found at the finish line. There isn't even a finish line. Life is not a race to be finished; it's a dance to be danced.