Comparison is useful as a point and destructive as a loop.

When you compare for a point in time, you can identify a gap in your approach and then shift your attention back to what you can control.

When you compare on a repeated loop, you can get locked into a cycle of envy and disappointment.

Perfection is expensive. The last 5 percent of quality almost always costs a disproportionate amount of time and money.

My favorite type of purchase is where you spend 80 percent of the cost, but get 95 percent of the value. The best combination of cost and quality is often one step down from perfect.

Trades are always happening whether you see them or not.

• Yes to the early meeting = no to the quiet morning
• Yes to the extra project = no to the free weekend
• Yes to something that drains you = no to time that fulfills you

Saying yes to one thing is always saying no to something else. The cost of a bad yes isn't just the time it takes. It's whatever could have grown in that space instead.

The point isn't to say no to everything, but simply to recognize the difference between a good yes and a bad yes. Then, try to improve the ratio in your life.

It's rare to find your purpose for life, so instead look for your purpose for this season.

What lights you up right now? What's a good thing to dedicate this season of your life to? Perhaps more importantly, what purpose served you well in your previous season, but you have outgrown?

Life is always changing. It's okay to pick a new North Star.

Unexpected forms of generosity:

• Being early can be a form of generosity. You wait, so they don't have to.
• Leaving something unsaid can be a form of generosity. You don't always need the last word.
• Delivering your work on time can be a form of generosity. You make life easier for everyone downstream.
• Not taking things personally can be a form of generosity. You give people the space to say things imperfectly.

The modern world is optimized for convenience, not improvement.

The default path is usually the more convenient path. And I get it. Who wants their days to be a pain in the neck? I like sitting in air conditioned rooms and watching my favorite shows too.

But the body and mind only grow when placed under a stimulus. If you want improvement, you have to choose something different than convenience.

It can be lovely to have a day where you do not push yourself, but it rarely works out well if you have a life where you do not push yourself.

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The negative examples always spread farther and faster than the positive examples. In a world this big, you'll find at least one negative example every day.

Don't let the existence of a bad example ruin your faith in the world. Good news is always quieter than bad news. Good behavior rarely stirs the pot or ignites emotion.

But no matter. We need role models all the same. Continue living the best way you know how.

Trust in yourself is not only built through successful repetitions, but also through failed ones.

When you have worked through failures in the past, you fear them less in the future. You know you can bounce back.

Successful repetitions build competence. Failed repetitions build resilience.

One of the best positions to be in: young, talented, and the underdog.

That's like a cocktail for making something great. You're hungry to prove yourself. You're young enough to not care about how it's previously been done. And, usually, you have fewer responsibilities to pull you away from the work.