What goes on when people overfetishize safety is that they're relapsing into that old frame of mind that what we're doing is BAD. - Laura Antoniou

Safe, sane and consensual — what do those words really mean?
Assimilation, that's what.

Fantasies aren't reality, I know, I know, I know. Except when they are. Except when you make them into reality.

And the harder the SSC ["safe, sane and consensual"] gets pushed at me, the harder I feel like pushing back. Passion, that's what I'm into, passion and blood and honor, so powerful that it pounds through my veins and blinds me, so terrible that I can't look away. Danger, Dementia, and Denial. I want to hear that panic, scream "No, Please!" and struggle through the haze of pain and pleasure and all that stuff that goes on between the moment we touch eyes and the moment when we both collapse and try to catch our breaths and break the silence.