Life [...] is not a problem, so why are you asking for a solution? - Alan Watts

Nothing fails like success — because the self-imposed task of our
society and all its members is a contradiction: to force things to happen
which are acceptable only when they happen without force.

If happiness always depends on something expected in the future, we are chasing a will-o’-the-wisp that ever eludes our grasp, until the future, and ourselves, vanish into the abyss of death.

It is true that in Taoism and Tantric Buddhism there are what appear to be techniques or 'practices' of sexual relationship[.] Their use is the consequence rather than the cause of a certain inner attitude, since they suggest themselves almost naturally to partners who take their love as it comes, contemplatively, and are in no hurry to grasp anything from it.