But learning is not always about finding the right method for you. It’s often about finding the right method for the task. - Adam Grant

Research shows that takers harbor doubts about others’ intentions, so they monitor vigilantly for information that others might harm them, treating others with suspicion and distrust. These low expectations trigger a vicious cycle, constraining the development and motivation of others. Even when takers are impressed by another person’s capabilities or motivation, they’re more likely to see this person as a threat, which means they’re less willing to support and develop him or her.

"The first follower is what transforms a lone nut into a leader." - Quoting Derek Sivers

above all, I want to demonstrate that success doesn’t have to come at someone else’s expense.” In