Many frustrations are the result of unspoken expectations. Before you get too annoyed, make sure you are clearly expressing your thoughts. - James Clear

Deconstruct the cool things you see.

If you'd like to become a better musician and you see an amazing performance, start paying attention to how they do it. How did they promote the event? What happens in the first ten seconds of each song? How frequently are they engaging directly with the audience? Is there a progression of energy throughout the show?

When something fascinates you, pay attention to the details. The person who thinks, "That was cool" is a consumer. The person who thinks, "How did they make something that cool?" is on the path to being a creator.

Don't just taste the recipe, look for the ingredients.

Sometimes all you need for exceptional results is average effort repeated for an above-average amount of time.

Some of the major drivers of human behavior…

• Safety: Does it provide peace of mind or reduce risk?
• Sex: Does it help them find love or make love?
• Convenience: Does it save time or energy?
• Social norms: Does it help them get along with others?
• Status: Does it improve their standing or help them gain approval?

…which all fit into the larger category of self-interest: How does it serve the person?