Do you drink ale, stranger?" the aged centaur asked Brazil. "I've been known to," Brazil replied. "What do you make it out of?" "Grains, water, and y… - Jack L. Chalker

Throughout the history of men there's always been some kind of drug, and the people stuck on it. The people who push the stuff are on a different kind of drug, one so powerful that they are not aware of its own, ravaging, animalistic effect on them."
"What's that?"
"Power and greed," he told her. "The ugliest—no, the second ugliest ravager of people ever known."
"What's the ugliest then?" she asked him.
"Fear," he replied seriously. "It destroys, rots, and touches everyone around.

And, of course, men have just as many problems and hang-ups as women. The grass isn’t greener, just different.

I found that the rich whom I’d envied dreamed of greater riches, and that power came not from obeying the law but from not getting caught.