I think part of making any decision in your twenties is realizing there is no twenty-four flavor table. It's a myth. - Meg Jay

Uncertainty makes people anxious, and distraction is the twenty-first century opiate of the masses.

I feel like I’m in the middle of the ocean. Like I could swim in any direction but I can’t see land on any side so I don’t know which way to go.

the years that were ahead. As he said, this made action impossible. Because Ian didn’t know that twentysomethings who make choices are happier than those who tread water, he kept himself confused. This was easy to do. Ian hung out with an indecisive crowd. At the bike shop where he worked, his friends assured him he didn’t need to make decisions