In classical renderings of prominent figures, males are lean and females are plump; in modern photographs, the opposite. - Nassim Nicholas Taleb

My point: life is not about outcomes, it's how you handle adversity. Suffering doesn't prevent you from being a role model, to the contrary --depends how you handle it. Popping pills does disqualify you.

Somehow it is only when you dont care about your reputation that you tend to have a good one.

"I will set aside the point that I see no special heroism in accumulating money, particularly if, in addition, the person is foolish enough to not even try to derive any tangible benefit from the wealth (aside from the pleasure of regularly counting the beans)." - N.N.Taleb