Being too much of one thing and not enough of another had been a recurring theme in my life. I was, like many young women, expected to be small so th… - Tressie McMillan Cottom

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Being too much of one thing and not enough of another had been a recurring theme in my life. I was, like many young women, expected to be small so that boys could expand and white girls could shine.

When I would not shrink, people made sure that I knew I had erred.

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Tressie McMillan Cottom is an American writer, sociologist, and professor.

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their feet. That is a black woman’s specialty. The personal essay had become the way that black women writers claim legitimacy in a public discourse that defines itself, in part, by how well it excludes black women. In a modern society, who is allowed to speak with authority is a political act.

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