A general practitioner is a doctor who treats what you've got; a specialist is a doctor who finds you've got what he treats. - Sydney J. Harris

"But in terms of "psychological" time, most of us are still living in centuries past, stirred by ancient grudges, controlled by obsolete prejudices, driven by buried fears."

But what is significant is that if you don’t want to like and accept somebody, one excuse is as good as another. The objective facts don’t matter, and the reasons are never as ‘reasonable’ as we like to think they are.

We must also learn that time itself is indivisible, that every act is a blending of past experience, present situation and future expectancy.