We need to find a balance between solving problems and learning to live with unsolved problems. - Melody Beattie

You need to detach most when it seems the least likely or possible thing to do. I

Today, I will let things happen without worrying about the significance of each event. I will trust that this will bring about my growth faster than running around with a microscope. I will trust my lessons to reveal themselves in their own time.

A codependent person is one who has let another person’s behavior affect him or her, and who is obsessed with controlling that person’s behavior.