I have come to recognize that the reason I devote myself to research, and to the building of theory, is to satisfy a need for perceiving order and me… - Carl Rogers

I believe that even our most abstract and philosophical views spring from an intensely personal base.

When the other person is hurting, confused, troubled, anxious, alienated, terrified; or when he or she is doubtful of self-worth, uncertain as to identity, then understanding is called for. The gentle and sensitive companionship of an empathic stance… provides illumination and healing. In such situations deep understanding is, I believe, the most precious gift one can give to another.

I regret it when I suppress my feelings too long and they burst forth in ways that are distorted or attacking or hurtful.