And again, for the love of god, if you don’t find her attractive, don’t pursue her.

The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. She likes masculine admiration, however violently expressed, and is quite able to take care of herself. More, she is well aware that very few men are bold enough to offer it without a plain invitation, and this awareness makes her extremely cynical of all women who complain of being harassed, beset, storied, and seduced. All the more intelligent women that I know, indeed, are unanimously of the opinion that no girl in her right senses has ever been actually seduced since the world began;

Never chase after opponents

I don’t lead girls on and I don’t chase. It’s in the process of chasing that guys are moved to do things that are not sincere or say things that are not true

I think if you don't really like a girl, you shouldn't horse around with her at all, and if you do like her, then you're supposed to like her face, and if you like her face, you ought to be careful about doing crumby stuff to it, like squirting water all over it. It's really too bad that so much crumby stuff is a lot of fun sometimes.

Do not let a flaunting woman coax and cozen and deceive you: she is after your barn. (translated by Hugh G. Evelyn-White)

Building yourself should come before actively chasing a lady that’s ‘trying for herself’.

PLEASE!!! Stop chasing people’s children, saying you love them / get married but lack the responsibility of being a man

It is a normal thing for men to go after an attractive woman. I haven’t had any abnormal experience with them. They show their admiration of me and I show them mine.

Observe the behavior of the butterfly, and chase no one, for they will only elude you.

You must never run from anything immortal. It attracts their attention. [...] Never run. [...] Walk slowly, and pretend to be thinking of something else. Sing a song, say a poem, do your tricks, but walk slowly and she may not follow.

I flee who chases me and chase who flees me.

Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you.

Never prod at a woman unless you must. She will kill you faster than a man and for less reason, even if she weeps over it after.