Every moment of your life is either a test or a celebration - David Deida

However, when you know your true purpose, which is your core desire in life, each moment can become a full expression of your core desire. Every instant of career, every instant of intimacy, is filled with the power of your heart purpose. You are no longer just going through the motions at work and with your woman, but you are living the truth of your life, and giving the gifts of your love, moment by moment. Such a life is complete unto itself in every instant.

love is the only practice that transcends the appearance and disappearance of all things and people.

She cannot move you, because you already are what you are, with or without her.