"I am convinced that an immense number of people who have children should not have them, and do not particularly want them, except as "symbols" of fa… - Sydney J. Harris

"I am convinced that an immense number of people who have children should not have them, and do not particularly want them, except as "symbols" of family life. What they want are ideal children, not real ones; and as soon as the real ones show no intention of conforming to the ideal in the parent's mind, they are treated as burdens, shipped away to school or otherwise neglected."