Know that whatever you want is already yours. Act as though everything you want can and will be yours. - Benjamin P. Hardy

This brings up a highly nuanced and crucial distinction: you can want something and be 100% committed to that thing without needing it. This is the counterintuitive reality: by no longer needing what you want, you are actually far more enabled to get it.

Your purpose isn't something you discover, but something you ultimately choose yourself. Stop looking for it and make the choice, then allow that choice to transform you.

No matter what occurs, frame the experience as a gain.