used to feel that I was a victim of the world I saw. When things would go wrong, I would blame the world or those in it for my misery and feel justif… - Gerald G. Jampolsky

Forgiveness does not mean condoning or agreeing with a horrendous act. It is a decision to no longer attack one’s self.

"I am beginning to see that I don't have to judge or interpret the motives and behaviors of others. There is no need to decide who are the good guys and who are the bad, who should be blamed and who punished. I find it truly is "safe" to surrender the script written by me and trust in God's script."

perdonar — sea a un amigo cercano o a toda una sociedad — no elimina la responsabilidad de las personas quienes han hecho cosas que causaron la muerte o infligieron infortunio o dolor emocional; perdonar no significa condonar tal comportamiento. Por encima de todo: perdonar es el proceso de liberarte de la atadura que te mantiene aferrado a los pensamientos negativos que alberga la mente, de curar tu mente y alma.