In the world of eternal return the weight of unbearable responsibility lies heavy on every move we make. - Milan Kundera

If rejection and priviledge are one and the same, if there is no difference between the sublime and the paltry, if Son of God can undergo judgement of shit, then human existence loses its dimensions and becomes unbearable light.

Only the basic situations in life occur only once, never to return. For a man to be a man, he must be fully aware of this never-to-return. (p.148)

Perhaps all the questions we ask of love, to measure, test, probe, and save it, have the additional effect of cutting it short.