It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere. — AGNES REPPLIER, The Treasure Chest - Melody Beattie

Detachment involves “present moment living” — living in the here and now. We allow life to happen instead of forcing and trying to control it.

Change your perspective and enjoy the adventure. Let the child in you come out to play.

I saw people who had gotten so absorbed in other people's problems they didn't have time to identify or solve their own. These were people who had cared so deeply, and often destructively, about other people that they had forgotten how to care about themselves. The codependents felt responsible for so much because the people around them felt responsible for so little; they were just taking up the slack.