An enemy has to be defeated in battle, but an adversary’s different. You must outwit an adversary. - Louise Erdrich

Here is the most telling fact: you wish to possess me.
Here is another fact: I loved you and let you think you could.

Your life feels different on you, once you greet death and understand your heart's position. You wear your life like a garment from the mission bundle sale ever after- lightly because you realize you never paid nothing for it, cherishing because you know you won't ever come by such a bargain again.

Add there was that moment when my mother and father walked in the door disguised as old people. I thought the miles in the car had bent them, dulled their eyes, even grayed and whitened their hair and caused their hands and voices to tremble. At the same time, I found, as I rose form the chair, I'd gotten old along with them.