I would rather be a good man than a great king. - Vishen Lakhiani

Instead of seeing the goal, think about it using a technique called lofty questions by author Christie Marie Sheldon. Here you phrase the vision that you want for yourself as a question in the present tense. For example: Why am I so easily able to visit incredible countries? Why am I so good at making, keeping, and multiplying money? Why am I so successful in love? Why am I at my ideal weight? For many people, the phrases are easier to do than the visualization.

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by John Gray.

When an old belief no longer serves you, you have every right to swap it out.