At the heart of this mindset is the unwavering belief that “I am enough! - Lewis Howes

Payal says when you live to please others, “you don’t know what success looks like anymore.”1 She calls it plan B success. It’s not the success path you chose for yourself, but one you sort of fell into accidentally. And no wonder it doesn’t feel fulfilling to you. It’s not yours!

One reason many people struggle is that they feel their identity is tied to the results they achieve.

Who or what has shaped your identity? Did you cultivate it yourself, or did someone else choose to prune you to grow in a particular direction? Often, this pruning happens unintentionally and is the product of the environment in which we live. You have to nurture your own growth in the direction of your own Meaningful Mission, or it will flow wherever other people take it.