Sometimes the best way to help people is to slow them down long enough to examine their own thinking. - Meg Jay

With all the attention paid to the urban tribe, however, many twentysomethings have limited themselves to huddling together with like-minded peers. Some are in almost constant contact with the same few people. But while the urban tribe helps us survive, it does not help us thrive. The urban tribe may bring us soup when we are sick, but it is the people we hardly know — those who never make it into our tribe — who will swiftly and dramatically change our lives for the better.

The art of being wise is knowing what to overlook.

There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you. — Maya Angelou