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One thing is certain: Yelling at someone who is already out of control can only lead to further dysregulation. - Bessel van der Kolk
" "One thing is certain: Yelling at someone who is already out of control can only lead to further dysregulation.
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About Bessel van der Kolk
Bessel van der Kolk (born 1943) is a psychiatrist, author, researcher and educator who was born in the Netherlands and is now based in Boston, USA. Since the 1970s his research has been in the area of post-traumatic stress.
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Bessel A. van der Kolk
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