An alive and loving person simply loves. Love is a natural function. So the second thing to remember is, don’t ask for perfection; otherwise you will not find any love flowing in you. On the contrary, you will become unloving. People who demand perfection are very unloving people, neurotic. Even if they can find a lover they demand perfection, and the love is destroyed because of that demand. Once a man loves a woman or a woman loves a man, demands immediately enter. The woman starts demanding that the man should be perfect, just because he loves her. As if he has committed a sin! Now he has to be perfect, now he has to drop all his limitations — suddenly, just because of this woman? Now he cannot be human? Either he has to become superhuman or he has to become phony, false, a cheat. Naturally, to become superhuman is very difficult, so people become cheats. They start pretending and acting and playing games. In the name of love people are just playing games. So the second thing to remember is never to demand perfection. You have no right to demand anything from anybody. If somebody loves you, be thankful, but don’t demand anything — because the other has no obligation to love you. If somebody loves, it is a miracle. Be thrilled by the miracle.

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في قلبك أغنية تريد أن تٌغنيها ورقصة تريد أن ترقصها، ولكن الرقصة لا تٌرى، والأغنية حتى آنت لم تسمعها حتى الآن. إنها مٌخباة في أعماق كيانك ،يجب أن تطفو إلى الخارج، يجب أن يتم التعبيرٌ عنها. هذا ما يقصد ب (تحقيق الذات( .

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The only problem with sadness, desperation, anger, hopelessness, anxiety, anguish, misery, is that you want to get rid of them. That’s the only barrier. You will have to live with them. You cannot just escape. They are the very situation in which life has to integrate and grow. They are the challenges of life. Accept them. They are blessings in disguise. If you want to escape from them, if you somehow want to get rid of them, then a problem arises – because if you want to get rid of something you never look at it directly.

Drinking tea is as sacred as doing yoga. Sleeping silently, relaxed, is as sacred as prayer. Looking at a tree, talking to a friend, walking early in the morning, working in the factory or in the office, is as holy as anything else. This is the understanding that is needed for Tao to happen.

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كل التطورات الأخيرة في فلسفة الغرب تشير إلى انه قد يكون الانتحار هو الحل الوحيد , طبعا أن كنت تجهل عالمك الداخلي وتملك كل ما يمكن أن يقدمه العالم الخارجي لك يصبح الانتحار الحل الوحيد