Vex King

If you’re not consistent in your actions, then you can’t assume that you’ll see the final results you were expecting.

It’s not selfish or a sign of weakness to distance yourself or walk away from those who constantly bring down your vibe.
Life is about balance. It’s about spreading kindness, but it’s also about not letting anyone take that kindness away from you.

Trauma makes us thin-skinned, overly sensitive, hypervigilant, and prone to pain. And it’s often all-encompassing, too, so our attention is focused on the pain and on desperately trying to avoid more of it.

We assume success is about being famous, rich
and owning expensive things. But if you’ve pulled
yourself out of a dark place, that’s a great success in
itself. Don’t forget that you’re winning each day you
don’t give up and you make it through to the next.

In psychology, the concept of ‘social proof’ suggests that people like to follow the crowd. If everyone else is doing it, you assume it’s the right thing to do. Other people influence your actions more than you realize. For example, if you had to pick between two new bars and you could see that one was packed while the other isn’t, you’d assume that the empty one sucked and the popular one was much better! But just because everyone else is doing it does not mean it’s right. Slavery used to be legal, but now nearly everyone would agree that it’s inhumane, degrading and immoral.

A lot of the beliefs we have are based on exaggeration, misconception and opinions imposed on us by other people.

Trauma feeds the fearful, wounded aspect of the ego and drives us to make decisions based on that pain. In contrast, when intuition guides our decisions and communication, we act from a place of love and steadiness.

We use our precious energy to imagine what could go wrong, instead of having faith in what could go right. And our actions reflect this.

Calmness among chaos is a sign of emotional maturity.

If you don’t prove that you’re serious about what you want to do, you can’t expect other people to be serious about it either.

But, you have to know how to share, open up, and be vulnerable. This ‘not knowing how’ is one of the reasons people find it difficult to begin or maintain relationships, and it makes absolute sense.

The Universe responds to your vibration.
It’ll return whatever energy you put out.

Lasting relationships, romantic or otherwise, require layers of compatibility, attraction, understanding and hard work.

Sometimes you have to unplug
yourself from the world for a
moment, so you can reset yourself.

When it’s right, you’ll both just know. No games, no guessing, no convincing. If you have to prove your worth, they aren’t for you. Don’t chase those who leave you feeling uncertain. Wait for the one who chooses you clearly and without hesitation.