Rejection exists for a reason — it’s a means to keep people apart who are not good for each other. - Mark Manson

Subtlety #1: Not giving a fuck does not mean being indifferent; it means being comfortable with being different. Let’s

You don’t control the outcome, only your effort.
You don’t choose their opinions, only your actions.
You don’t decide whether it hurts, only what it means.

Instead of striving for certainty, we should be in constant search of doubt: doubt about our own beliefs, doubt about our own feelings, doubt about what the future may hold for us unless we get out there and create it for ourselves. Instead of looking to be right all the time, we should be looking for how we’re wrong all the time. Because we are.