Attention is not intention. - Matthew Hussey

If you’re older, you can play two cards: you bring a level of maturity and knowledge of the world and life (and sex, by the way) that a guy might not be able to get with a younger woman, and you also demonstrate youthful qualities like a desire for fun and adventure. This is a powerful and sexy combination of traits. Men aren’t attracted to young women, they are attracted to youth-fulness. Youth is something we do, not something we are.

The fantasy of what someone might be like when we talk to them online is meaningless unless we actually progress to the point of meeting them.

The love of your life can only ever be the person who chooses you for their life. It can never be the person who doesn’t choose you.