The fantasy of what someone might be like when we talk to them online is meaningless unless we actually progress to the point of meeting them. - Matthew Hussey

If you consider yourself to be an introvert,
I’m about to give you three words
That are going to change the way you think of attraction forever.
Peak-End Rule
The Peak-End Rule:
The psychological heuristic in which people judge an experience largely based on how they felt at it’s peak and at it’s end, rather than based on the total sum or average.
To understand this rule … you need only think of a Broadway show, a movie, or a concert, and how there are moments in these shows that can actually be quite boring. There are moments in a concert where there are 5 songs in a row that you don’t care about. But if the concert, if the movie, if that Broadway show, ends with a bang, or has a really emotional peak moment somewhere within it … that tends to be the part that we remember. It colors our entire experience of the thing. If you are an introvert the psychology of this is gold to you.

Your message to him: I am a complete person without you, but I desire to have you be a part of my life because you are worthy of it.

Certainty turns out to be one of the sexiest qualities you can possess.