Aim to live a wild, generous, full, exciting life — blessing those around you and seeing the good in all. - Bear Grylls

Tents don't repair themselves. Neither do relationships. Fix the small rips before the next storm hits.

If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead anywhere.

The next night was New Year’s Eve, and I made a secret plan with Shara to meet her outside the back door on the stroke of midnight.
“Let’s take a walk,” I suggested.
“Sure. It’s midnight, minus five degrees, and pitch black, but hey, let’s walk.” She paused. “But not up Loyal,” she added, smiling.
And so we walked together along a moonlit track.
Twenty yards and then I will make the move to kiss her, I told myself.
But plucking up the courage with a girl this special was harder than I had thought.
Twenty yards became two hundred yards. Then two thousand.
Forty-five minutes later, she suggested that maybe we should turn around and head back to the house.
“Yes. Good idea.” I replied.
Do it, Bear, you old woman. Do it now!
And so I did.
A quick kiss on the lips, then a longer lingering one, and then I had to stop. It was sensory overload.
Wow. That was worth the walk, I thought, smiling from ear to ear.
“Let’s head back,” I confirmed, still smiling.
I am not sure Shara was quite as impressed by the effort-to-reward ratio — long cold walk to short, hot kiss — but as far as I was concerned the sky and clouds had parted, and nothing would ever be the same again.