"I say, if you cringe over yourself, that's good. It means that you have grown. You should actually never stop cringing. - Mark Manson

Why do you care that I’m dead when you’re still so afraid to live?” I

This, in a nutshell, is what “self-improvement” is really about: prioritizing better values, choosing better things to give a fuck about. Because when you give better fucks, you get better problems. And when you get better problems,

"What determines your success isn't, "What do you want to enjoy?" the relevant question is, "What pain do you want to sustain?