when a person has no problems, the mind automatically finds a way to invent some. - Mark Manson

"Keep your “self” out of your decisions, because most likely, it’s not about “you.” Simply ask yourself, “Is this a good thing to do?” Yes? Then go do it.

Oh, you failed to do it? Is it still a good thing to do? Yes? Then go do it again. And if, at any point, you realize that it wasn’t as good as you thought, then don’t do it again.

End of story.

- From the Article: "Stop Trying to Change Yourself

By default, we typically don't want to hear the truth.

We just want to hear confirmation of what we already believe is the truth.

"Many people become so obsessed with being "right" about their life that they never end up actually living it."