Instead of thinking, “I wonder if she’ll like me,” think, “I wonder what she’s like? - Mark Manson

We all love to take responsibility for success and happiness. Hell, we often fight over who gets to be responsible for success and happiness. But taking responsibility for our problems is far more important, because that’s where the real learning comes from. That’s where the real-life improvement comes from.

Subtlety #1: Not giving a fuck does not mean being indifferent; it means being comfortable with being different. Let’s

When we let go of the stories we tell about ourselves, to ourselves, we free ourselves up to actually act (and fail) and grow.