There are times when I just want to walk through a room, grab that girl, slap her hard and make her cry. Push her down and fuck her mind over twice a… - Laura Antoniou

What goes on when people overfetishize safety is that they're relapsing into that old frame of mind that what we're doing is BAD.

Fantasies aren't reality, I know, I know, I know. Except when they are. Except when you make them into reality.

What is happening to my sexuality?
It's cold, it's pasionless, and what's worse, it's dull.
John Preston was right. SM has become a nice, sweet alternative to heavy petting, and the leaders of this SM "community" want us to be the Elks or some other animal-named civics association, gathering to sell expensive clothing and raffle tickets, congratulating ourselves on how nice we are.