The more a boy represses his feelings and puts armor around his heart, the harder it is to open our hearts to him. - Warren Farrell

It is often said that women are a civilizing balance to the innately warlike male. By taking care of the killing for women it could be said that men civilized women. When survival was the issue, men killing to protect what women bore was the male form of nurturance.

Male Message 1 is subconsciously experienced by the boy like this: ‘Some girls in my class already look like movie stars. If they wanted me as much as I want them, then I’d know I was okay. They are genetic celebrities. I am a genetic groupie.’

Women attempt suicide more often because they want to become the priority of those they love rather than always prioritizing them.