"Don't hope for a life without problems," the panda said. "There's no such thing. Instead, hope for a life full of good problems." - Mark Manson

Not giving a fuck does not mean being indifferent; it means being comfortable with being different.

When you can’t decide, ask yourself: Which option minimizes future regrets?

Then do that.

Failure itself is a relative concept. If my metric had been to become an anarcho-communist revolutionary, then my complete failure to make any money between 2007 and 2008 would have been a raving success. But if, like most people, my metric had been to simply find a first serious job that could pay some bills right out of school, I was a dismal failure.