If you can’t outargue the other fellow, sometimes you can outlive him. - Robert A. Heinlein

“Jim, you’re a fool,”Bowles answered.
“No, I’m a bachelor. Why? Because I can’t stand the favorite sport of all women.”
“Which is?”
“Trying to geld stallions. Let’s get on with the job.”

We are all free—to walk our appointed paths. Just as a stone is free to fall when you toss it into the air. No one is free in the abstract meaning you give the word.

You aren't really there at all. There isn't anybody but me — Jane — here alone in the dark. I miss you dreadfully!