The avoidance of suffering is a form of suffering. The avoidance of struggle is a struggle. The denial of failure is a failure. - Mark Manson

Nereye giderseniz gidin, sizi bekleyen bir sorun yumağı vardır. Bunda bir sorun da yoktur. Mesele bu yığından kaçmak değil, mesele uğraşmaktan hoşlanacağınız yumağı bulmaktır.

Improvement at anything is based on thousands of tiny failures, and the magnitude of your success is based on how many times you’ve failed at something. If someone is better than you at something, then it’s likely because she has failed at it more than you have. If someone is worse than you, it’s likely because he hasn’t been through all of the painful learning experiences you have.

There is no such thing as change without pain, no growth without discomfort. It’s why it is impossible to become someone new without first grieving the loss of who you used to be.