It’s worth remembering that for any change to happen in your life, you must be wrong about something. If you’re sitting there, miserable day after da… - Mark Manson

And again, for the love of god, if you don’t find her attractive, don’t pursue her.

The choice you are agonizing over will not matter as much as you think.

The job you pick, the house you buy, the city you move to, each will become normal faster than you expect. Your happiness is not in the choice itself but in how well you later justify it.

People can't solve your problems for you. And they shouldn't try, because that won't make you happy. You can't solve other people's problems for them either, because that likewise won't make them happy. The mark of an unhealthy relationship is two people who try to solve each other's problems in order to feel good about themselves.